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Food is fuel. Not punishment.
Hybrid athletes need more food than they think. You are running and lifting. Under-eating is the fastest way to plateau, get injured, and feel like garbage. This guide is built around performance — not restriction.
01 — Macronutrients
Protein
1.6–2.2 g/kg
Rebuilds muscle. Non-negotiable.
Carbs
4–7 g/kg
Your running fuel. Higher on hard days.
Fat
0.8–1.2 g/kg
Hormones, joints, sustained energy.
Note
General ranges. Adjusted per individual by coach.
02 — Nutrient Timing
Pre-Training (1–2 hrs before)
Carb-focused + moderate protein + low fat/fibre. Oats + banana · Toast + eggs · Rice + chicken
During Training (60+ min)
Water every 15–20 min. Electrolytes for sessions over 60 min. Simple carbs for 90+ min — gel, banana, dates.
Post-Training (within 30–60 min)
Protein + carbs. 25–40g protein. Shake + banana · Greek yoghurt + fruit · Chicken + rice. Do not skip this window.
03 — Best Food Sources
Protein
Chicken · Salmon · Eggs · Greek yoghurt · Cottage cheese · Lean beef · Protein powder · Legumes
Carbs
Oats · Rice · Sweet potato · Bread · Banana · Pasta · Quinoa · Dates (pre-training)
Fats
Avocado · Olive oil · Nuts + nut butter · Salmon · Eggs · Chia seeds
Supplements
Creatine 3–5g · Protein powder · Electrolytes · Vitamin D · Magnesium · Omega 3
04 — Race Day Protocol
Hyrox Race Day
Night beforeCarb-rich dinner. Familiar food. Not new.
3 hrs beforeOats, banana, eggs. Small and familiar.
60 min beforeBanana or dates. Water only.
During raceWater at stations. Gel at halfway if over 1hr.
Post raceProtein + carbs within 30 min. Then celebrate.
Never try new food on race day. Practise your race nutrition in training.
05 — Hydration
Daily baseline35ml per kg bodyweight
Training days+500ml–1L per hour
Race morning500ml with breakfast
During raceWater at every station, small sips
Add electrolytes for sessions over 60 min, hot days, and race day. Plain water alone is not enough.
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About Megan
Story · Credentials · Method
Megan Masters
Hybrid Mumlete
Cert IV PT · AIN Nutritionist · Hyrox PB 1:23
Where it started

I grew up a touch football player — five days a week, getting myself to comps because sport was where I could release my energy. I left home at 16. I finished school while managing family, caring for others, and figuring out who I was — at an age my own daughter is now. I think about how the hell I did it.

I was a child who had been involved in the system. My mum had her struggles with mental health and that became the beginning of my story. It made me who I am. I remember watching the way hospital staff treated patients — I could see who had learnt from a textbook and who had lived experience. I wanted to be the one who understood.

I was introduced to hockey at 21 by a good friend and housemate. Oh my — where had this sport been my whole life.

Life, movement, and finding my way

I met my husband while I was in Melbourne when my dad was terminally ill. We fell pregnant quickly and married within 14 months — a real whirlwind. My dad passed. We moved to WA. Two kids. I worked 20+ years in club and pub and hospitality management. I played hockey up to five months pregnant with my first.

WA wasn't working out — patterns I had lived through my whole marriage became harder to manage on the other side of Australia. We moved back east, back to Caba. I was home.

He joined the army and was posted to Brisbane. I joined the gym, trained every day, joined the netball team. The kids wanted to play hockey — I was convinced to play too. That started a hockey journey that took me all over Australia: four state championships, three national tournaments, multiple divisions each week. Absolutely loving it.

The illness, the pivot, the rebuild

I joined F45 after falling sick training for a boxing match. Chronic urticaria — hives everywhere, mouth, lungs, all caused by stress. Two years of medication, hospital trips, injections. Years of abuse catching up with my body.

I kept playing hockey. I won an F45 challenge and used that prize money to complete my Certificate IV in Personal Training and my Nutrition and Weight Management diploma. I worked at F45 for four years.

After a devastating accident I found Hyrox — nobody here had heard of it yet. I said: I am going to do it. I am going to prove this accident will not hold me back.

Now

Five Hyrox events completed. More booked. Paladins. Darkness to Daylight. Triathlons. Division 2 baseball. A marathon — why not. All while actively going through one of the hardest seasons of my life.

It made me stronger. More determined. You can rebuild a life from the ground up and still train for Hyrox. You can be the mum you always wanted to be. I am proof of both.

Credentials
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Nutrition & Weight Management Diploma · AIN
Enrolled Nurse · Case Manager · Psychology student
Hyrox PB 1:23 · 5 events completed · Sub 1:18 target
4 state champs · 3 national tournaments — Hockey
Darkness to Daylight — Team Captain, Beyond Control
Lived experience — DV, trauma, mental health, addiction
The Hybrid Theory Method

Strength + Endurance + Mental Resilience.

This is not a generic plan. It is a system built by someone who trained through the hardest period of her life — and got better. It works because it was tested under real pressure, not ideal conditions.

The part most coaches skip is the mental side. Showing up when you don't want to. Doing the session when life is heavy. Building evidence of your own capability one session at a time. That is the whole game.

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I am afraid of my partner or ex-partner
They control where I go, who I see or what I spend
They have threatened me or the children
They have physically hurt or restrained me
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The abuse has escalated since we separated
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They have weapons or have threatened to use them
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Know what the law calls it
Domestic Violence
Behaviour that causes, or is reasonably likely to cause, fear in a relevant relationship. Includes physical, sexual, emotional, psychological and economic abuse.
Domestic and Family Violence Protection Act 2012 (QLD)
Coercive Control
A pattern of behaviour designed to take away liberty — isolate, degrade, exploit and control. Criminal offence in QLD from 2025. Includes monitoring movements, finances and communications.
Criminal Law (Coercive Control) Amendment Act 2023 (QLD)
Financial Abuse
Controlling access to money, preventing employment, running up debt, concealing assets, hiding income, using child support as a weapon. Recognised as DV in all Australian states.
Family Law Act 1975 — Section 79 (wastage)
Post-Separation Abuse
Abuse that continues or escalates after separation. Using the legal system, children and finances as weapons. Withholding financial disclosure. Recognised by courts as ongoing coercive control.
Family Law Act 1975 · Re: Parenting
Economic Abuse
Hiding assets in proceedings, transferring money to third parties, refusing to disclose superannuation, spending marital assets on gambling, affairs or luxury items. Wastage findings available.
Kennon and Kennon · Burnell and Rockford 2024
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1800 737 732 · National · 24hr
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Domestic Violence Order (DVO)
Apply at any Magistrates Court. Police can also apply on your behalf. Temporary Protection Order (TPO) available same day in urgent situations.
✓ Coercive Control — Criminal Offence
Criminal from 2025 under the Criminal Law (Coercive Control) Amendment Act 2023. Pattern of controlling behaviour is now a criminal offence carrying up to 14 years imprisonment.
Apply for a DVO
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Queensland Courts — Apply for DVO
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Paper Trail
Report everything. Always. To everyone.
The most important thing you can do.
Every report, every record, every occurrence number creates a paper trail. Courts look for patterns. Patterns are built from individual incidents reported consistently over time. One report means nothing. Twenty reports mean everything.
Report to every one of these, every time
1. Police — always get an occurrence number
Every incident — even if police say it's minor. Call 000 for immediate danger. Call 131 444 (Policelink) for non-emergency. Request an occurrence number every single time. Write it down immediately. This is your proof the incident was reported.
Each state has online reporting too — use it when safe to do so
2. Your GP — every single time
Your GP creates a permanent medical record. Even if there are no visible injuries, tell your GP what happened. Use these words: "I am experiencing domestic violence and I need this documented in my medical records." GPs are trained to respond. Medical records are powerful evidence in court.
Tip: Ask for a copy of the consultation notes after every visit
3. DV Services — get a case number
Every time you call 1800RESPECT, DVConnect, or any crisis service — you get a case record. This proves you were seeking help over a period of time. It shows a pattern. Ask for your case reference number.
1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732 · DVConnect: 1800 811 811
4. Children's school or daycare
Teachers are mandatory reporters. If your children have witnessed or been affected by DV, tell their school. In plain language: "My children are experiencing family violence at home and I want this documented." The school must act and create a record.
School records can be subpoenaed in family court proceedings
5. Your lawyer — email everything
After every incident, email your lawyer a brief summary — date, time, what happened, what was said, who witnessed it. Email creates a timestamped record that exists outside your phone. Even if you don't have a lawyer yet, email a trusted person the same details immediately.
Email is timestamped evidence. Use it.
6. Hospital or emergency department
If you attend hospital for any reason related to the abuse — go. Tell the truth about how the injury occurred. Hospital records are powerful evidence. Doctors are mandated reporters in many states. Ask for copies of your records.
You can request your records under FOI/privacy legislation in every state
What to say — a script
"I need to report an incident of domestic violence. It happened on [date] at approximately [time]. I want this documented. Can I have a reference / occurrence number please?"
Breach of Orders
Report every breach. The same day. Every time.
Call 000 if in danger. Call 131 444 for non-emergency breaches. Get an occurrence number. Even if police say the breach is "minor" — report it anyway and get the number. Minor breaches documented consistently become a criminal pattern.
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Financial Safety
Escape · Rebuild · Protect
You are entitled to financial independence.
Financial abuse is one of the most powerful tools of control. But it can be dismantled — step by step, quietly, before you're ready to leave, or the moment you do.
Before you leave — do this quietly
Open a private bank account
Open a new account in your name only at a different bank than any joint accounts. Use your own email address they don't have access to. Set up online banking and turn off paper statements. Start depositing small amounts if safe to do so. This is your escape fund.
Use a library computer or trusted friend's phone if needed
Gather financial documents quietly
Photograph or screenshot: joint bank statements, tax returns, super statements, mortgage documents, any business records. Email copies to a secure email account they don't know about. Financial disclosure is mandatory in family law proceedings — having your own copies means you can spot what's missing.
Documents on your phone can be deleted. Email them somewhere else immediately.
Know what you're entitled to
In Australia, all assets and superannuation accumulated during the relationship are considered joint property regardless of whose name they're in. This includes businesses, properties, investments and super. Financial abuse during the relationship can be raised as "wastage" in property proceedings.
Family Law Act 1975 — Section 79 · Get legal advice early
The day you leave — do this immediately
Centrelink DV Crisis Payment
Call Centrelink on 132 850. Tell them you are leaving a domestic violence situation and you need to claim the Crisis Payment. This is a one-off lump sum payment available the day you leave. You do not need to already be on Centrelink. You do not need a court order. You need to have left, or be about to leave, due to extreme circumstances.
132 850 · Available same day · No waiting period
Centrelink — change your address privately
Call Centrelink and add a "restricted access" flag to your file. This means your new address cannot be accessed by anyone — including them, if they call. Ask for this specifically. Centrelink staff are trained to assist DV survivors.
myGov · 132 850
Child Support — apply immediately
Apply for a child support assessment through Services Australia on the day of separation or as soon as safe to do so. Payments are backdated to the date of application — not the date you eventually receive them. Apply early.
services.gov.au/child-support · 131 272
Freeze joint accounts
Contact your bank immediately and request that both signatures are required for any transaction on joint accounts. This prevents them from draining accounts. You can also ask the bank to flag the account under their domestic violence policy — most major banks in Australia have one.
ANZ, CBA, NAB, Westpac all have DV financial safety policies
Update MyGov the day you separate
Updating your address and contact details on MyGov the day of separation — or as soon as it is safe to do so — is one of the most important steps. All government services flow through MyGov. If they still have access to your details they can intercept correspondence, track your location, or interfere with payments. Change your address, email, and phone number immediately. Add a privacy restriction flag to your Centrelink file — call 132 850 and ask specifically for this.
mygov.gov.au · 132 850 · Do this as early as it is safe to do so
Child Support — apply immediately, it is backdated
Apply for a child support assessment through Services Australia as soon as it is safe — ideally the day of separation. Payments are backdated to the date of your application, not the date you receive them. Apply early, even if the situation is not resolved.
Tell them it is a DV situation. There is a separate process. Services Australia will call them or attempt to contact them — but they will call you first to let you know when they are about to do that. They will ask: will contact with them make your situation worse? Only you know your situation. You need to make sure you do not put yourself at any more risk. Be honest.
Do NOT do private collection or private agreement with an abuser. This gives them more leverage to abuse you. You become reliant on them. If they do not pay — that reliance becomes control. Always go through the formal government system. If they do not pay and are not contacted, you have more capacity before your government payments are affected. Do not give up that protection.
services.gov.au/child-support · 131 272 · DV flag available
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servicesaustralia.gov.au · Also call 132 850
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Child Support — Apply online
servicesaustralia.gov.au/child-support · Also call 131 272
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1800 007 007 · Free financial counselling
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Child Support — Services Australia
131 272 · Apply immediately on separation
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FOI · Privacy · Every source matters
These records were written at the time by someone else.
Courts treat contemporaneous third-party records as highly credible. Every record you collect is evidence that exists independently of you — that cannot be dismissed as your word alone. Request everything. Keep everything.
How to use these records
Never give up your records. They are yours.
Use them like this in court or with your lawyer:

GP: "My GP treated me for [condition] on [date] and this is documented in my medical records."

Counsellor: "I disclosed the abuse to my treating psychologist on approximately [date]. Their session notes record this."

DV service: "I called 1800RESPECT on [date] as I was at crisis point due to [incident]. I have a case reference number."

Police: "I reported this incident to police on [date]. The occurrence number is [number]."
Police records — request by state
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QLD Police — Right to Information
rti@police.qld.gov.au · Occurrence reports, call logs
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NSW Police — Right to Information
npswpoi@police.nsw.gov.au
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VIC Police — FOI
Request occurrence records
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WA Police — FOI
Request occurrence records
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SA Police — FOI
Request occurrence records
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Health records
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QLD Health — Request records
Hospital, ED, outpatient records
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NSW Health — Request records
Hospital and health service records
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GP and private health records
Contact your GP clinic directly and request copies of your consultation notes. You are entitled to these under the Privacy Act. Ask for all records that mention DV, injury, mental health, stress or anxiety.
Psychologist / counsellor notes
Request a copy of session notes relevant to DV disclosures. Your full file does not have to be produced — just the relevant records. Their notes can be subpoenaed if needed.
Government records
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MyGov — Centrelink records
Request records of DV-related contacts and payments
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Services Australia — Child Support
Request your case records and correspondence
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Children's records
Children's school / daycare
Request records of any welfare concerns, absences, behaviour changes, or DV disclosures. Teachers are mandated reporters. If you told the school about DV there will be a record. School records can be subpoenaed in family court proceedings.
Technology records
Tesla privacy / location data
Tesla keeps records of when the app was opened and used. If you believe your Tesla app or vehicle was used to track your movements — request a privacy data report from Tesla. This can prove surveillance and stalking.
tesla.com/support/privacy → Request your data
Phone records and call logs
Request call records from your telco showing calls you made to DV services, police, or legal services. Some service providers also keep records of calls you made about account extensions or disputes caused by financial abuse — these can show the impact of the abuse.
Social media data
Download your data from Instagram, Facebook, WhatsApp. This includes all messages, DMs, and metadata. Instagram: Settings → Your Activity → Download Your Information. Use iMazing to export all iPhone messages as PDF with timestamps.
Other sources
Every place you have been — may have a record.
Gym / sports club — attendance records showing routine changes or absences

Hospital emergency — even if you didn't disclose DV, records of injury exist

DV phone services — every call has a case reference. Request them all.

Bank — transaction records showing financial control

Any professional who treated you — GP, specialist, dentist — has notes
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By state
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National
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Women's Legal Service QLD
1800 957 957 · Free legal advice
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Legal Aid QLD
1300 651 188 · DV legal assistance
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Queensland Courts DV
Apply for DVO at your local Magistrates Court
Crisis and Housing
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DVConnect Womensline
1800 811 811 · Crisis housing · 24hr
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Brisbane Domestic Violence Service
Safe houses · Outreach support
Financial
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Centrelink DV Crisis Payment
Call 132 850 · Available immediately
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Good Shepherd Financial Wellbeing
No interest loans · Financial counselling
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AVO / DVO Guide
Apply · Process · Breaches · Your rights
What It Is
Prepare
Apply
At Court
Breaches
Retaliatory
A protection order is a court order that protects you by law.
Each state uses different names — DVO (QLD), AVO (NSW), FVIO (VIC), FVRO (WA), IVO (SA), FVO (TAS/ACT/NT) — but they all do the same thing. They are nationally recognised. One order covers you everywhere in Australia.
Two ways to get one
Police application
Police apply on your behalf when they attend an incident or when you report. They become the applicant — not you. This can feel easier but you have less control over the conditions. Police must attend an incident to issue an emergency order directly — but you can always apply yourself at court.
Your own application at court
You walk into your nearest Magistrates or Local Court and apply yourself. You do not need a lawyer. You do not need a previous police report. You can get an interim order the same day. This guide focuses on how to do this yourself.
It is free. No court fees. No lawyer required.
The two types of order
Interim / Temporary Order
Granted the same day you apply — without them being present. Takes effect immediately. Protects you while the matter goes through the full court process. In QLD this is called a Temporary Protection Order (TPO).
Final Order
Made after a hearing — usually 2 years or longer in serious cases. Nationally recognised. Breaching it is a criminal offence in every state. Keep a copy everywhere — your bag, your phone, your children's school, your workplace.
DUO / FOO — what these mean
The risk assessment tools
When police attend or when you apply, courts use risk assessment tools called the DUO (Domestic Violence Risk Assessment) and FOO (Family Officer Observation). These are not assessments of who is the "bad person" — they assess who is at the greatest risk of being subjected to violence and what the impact of that violence is. The focus is risk and impact, not blame. Be honest. The higher the assessed risk, the stronger the protection available.
Standard conditions an order can include
Must not assault, threaten, harass or intimidate you
Must not stalk you
Must not contact you directly or through another person
Must not come within a set distance of your home, work or children's school
Must not damage or destroy your property
Must not contact you by phone, text, email or social media
Must not approach your children's school or daycare
Must not post about you on social media
The order is recognised nationally.
Take a copy to the local police station wherever they live so they are aware. If you need to call police for immediate danger they will be able to act faster if the station already has a record of your order.
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Prove It
Document every type of abuse
Physical Violence
Photograph injuries immediately with timestamps. Get a medical examination even if injuries seem minor — GP notes are evidence. Report to police. Get an occurrence number. Write it down while it is fresh.
Threats and Messages
Screenshot every threatening message with timestamp visible. Back up to cloud immediately. Do not delete anything. Email screenshots to your lawyer so they exist outside your phone.
Financial Abuse
Screenshot bank statements showing transfers, gambling, cash withdrawals, luxury spending. Get copies of joint accounts. Request tax returns. Document hidden assets as you discover them.
Coercive Control
Keep a journal — date, time, what happened, what was said. Document patterns not just incidents. Witness statements from anyone who observed the behaviour.
Breaches of Orders
Report every breach to police the same day. Get an occurrence number each time. Photograph evidence. Write down witness names. Every breach counts — even those police call minor.
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Report Everything
Always. To everyone. Every time.
Every call. Every visit. Every reference number. Keep them all.
You may not even know all the services that have records of you. DV phone services, crisis lines, legal aid, housing services — every one of these has a record of your contact. Ask for your reference number every time. Write it down immediately.
Immediate danger
📞
000 — Police · Fire · Ambulance
Call if in immediate danger. Always get occurrence number.
Police — non-emergency
🚔
Policelink — 131 444
Non-emergency reports · Get occurrence number every time
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QPS Online Reporting
police.qld.gov.au · Use when safe to do so
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NSW Police Online Report
police.nsw.gov.au
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National crisis lines — 24hr
📞
1800RESPECT
1800 737 732 · National · 24hr · Online chat available
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1800RESPECT Online Chat
1800respect.org.au · Chat if calling isn't safe
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📞
Lifeline
13 11 14 · Crisis support · 24hr
State DV crisis lines
📞
DVConnect Womensline — QLD
1800 811 811 · 24hr · Crisis + housing + safety planning
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NSW Domestic Violence Line
1800 656 463 · 24hr · Free
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Safe Steps — VIC
1800 015 188 · 24hr
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Crisis Care — WA
1800 007 339 · 24hr
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DV Crisis Line — SA
1800 800 098 · 24hr
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Safe Families — TAS
1800 633 937 · 24hr
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DV Crisis Service — ACT
(02) 6280 0900 · 24hr
Legal help
⚖️
Legal Aid QLD
1300 651 188
⚖️
Legal Aid NSW
1300 888 529
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Women's Legal Service QLD
1800 957 957 · Free legal advice
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Women's Legal Service NSW
1800 801 501 · Free legal advice
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NSW Victims Services
1800 633 063
Other services — all keep records of your contact
Ask for a reference number from every service you contact.
Kids Helpline — 1800 551 800
MensLine Australia — 1300 789 978 (also supports people affected by DV)
Beyond Blue — 1300 22 4636
Suicide Call Back Service — 1300 659 467
Financial Counselling — 1800 007 007
Centrelink DV support — 132 850
Child Support — 131 272
All of these services have records of your calls.
Even if you didn't think of it as a formal report at the time — the call happened, and there is a record. You can request these records later. They exist independently of you and carry significant weight as contemporaneous evidence.
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Evidence Log
Private · Timestamped · PDF export
Every entry is timestamped and stored securely. Export as a PDF for your lawyer or police at any time.
Example entry · Breach
DVO breach — attended prohibited location
BreachPhoto
Example entry · Threat
Threatening messages received
ThreatMessage
Example entry · Legal
Court deadline — evidence not filed
LegalNon-compliance
Mon 3 May 2026 · 09:14am · System entry
Alert triggered
Auto
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New Evidence Entry
Date & time of incident
Entry type
Breach
Threat
Financial
Incident
Legal
Other
Evidence attached?
Screenshot
Photo
Recording
Document
None
Timestamped and locked. Only you can see this.
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Podcasts
Recommended listening
Carefully chosen episodes and series on domestic violence, coercive control, and rebuilding. More being added.
Coercive Control
🎙️
Coercive Control — Conversations That Count
Apple Podcasts · Opens in Podcasts app
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Survivor Stories
🎙️
Hannah's Story
Apple Podcasts · Opens in Podcasts app
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Rebuilding After
🎙️
The Divorce Course Podcast
Apple Podcasts · Opens in Podcasts app
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Coming Soon
🖤
Megan's Podcast
Coming soon. Real talk. No filter.
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Family Law
Know the law · Know the cases · Know your position
General information only — NOT legal advice. Compiled from The Divorce Course Podcast and Australian family law research May 2026. Always verify with an independent lawyer.
Law
Cases
Property
Wastage
CC
Parenting
Maintenance
Negotiate
Disclosure
Primary Carer
Health
Tricks
Section 4AB — Family Violence
Family violence means violent, threatening or other behaviour that coerces or controls a family member or causes them to be fearful. It does not have to be physical. Includes: assault, stalking, psychological abuse, financial control, isolation, damaging property, threatening children. Children exposed to DV are considered victims in their own right.
Family Law Act 1975 — foundation section for all DV arguments in family court
Section 60CC — Best Interests of Children
Safety of children is now the PRIMARY consideration in parenting matters. The presumption of equal shared parental responsibility was REMOVED in 2023. Courts no longer start from 50/50. They start from what is in the best interests of the children with safety first. Family violence history is directly relevant. Post-separation risk is assessed — not just historical behaviour.
2023 amendment — major change — equal time is no longer the default
Section 75 — Future Needs
The court considers future needs factors when dividing property — these can result in an adjustment above 50% in your favour. Key factors: age and health, income and earning capacity, care of children, financial needs, superannuation gap, career disruption during the relationship, standard of living, duration of marriage. Every factor that applies to you strengthens your position.
A party with chronic health, sole care of complex-needs children and reduced earning capacity has strong grounds
Section 79 — Property Division (4 Steps)
Step 1 — Identify all assets and liabilities of both parties. Step 2 — Assess contributions financial and non-financial. Step 3 — Apply Section 75 future needs adjustment. Step 4 — Is the outcome just and equitable? Wastage, hidden assets and financial abuse affect Steps 1–2. Coercive control, health, children and earning capacity affect Step 3.
Family Law Act 1975
Section 72 — Spousal Maintenance
Two conditions must both be met: your need (cannot adequately support yourself — health, caring responsibilities, outgoings exceed income) AND their capacity (they have the financial capacity to pay). Usually time-limited. Can be paid as regular payments or lump sum. Relevant where one party has significantly higher income and the other has primary care of children.
Family Law Act 1975
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Megan's Letter
MM
A letter from the founder

If you're reading this, you found it. Or someone sent it to you because they see what you're going through. Either way — I see you.

I spent 17 years inside something I didn't have a word for until it was almost too late. Coercive control. Financial abuse. A thousand small cuts that never left marks anyone else could see.

I was a nurse. A mother. An athlete. I was performing at a high level in every area of my life and still couldn't see it clearly from inside it.

When I finally got out — when I took my children and started to rebuild from nothing — I realised how alone I had been. How much I didn't know about the legal system, the programs, the language, what I was even allowed to say.

I built Beyond Control so no woman has to navigate it as alone as I did.

This is what I wish had existed. A place that looked safe on any phone. That had the right words. The right numbers. The right steps.

A place that told you: what you are experiencing is real. It has a name. You are not crazy. And you do not have to stay.

You are not broken. You are in a situation. And situations can change.

Strength grows before you feel it. 🖤
— Megan